Advice/Comfort Thread

That's so nice, dear!
I'm happy she's recovering
But it's kinda bad she gets that tired, it is normal I know

Anyways, Take good care of her, so she recovers completely

Thanks a lot loves!

Guys I really need to rant right NOW.

Well let's begin...

I'm really confused and upset. My cousin is pregnant.

Before that she lived with us and she studied the junior high school while she was living here in my house. She finished it, not before making my parents angry and worried about her future because here in Mexico when you're about to enter to high school you have to get in a "contest", and you have to pass an exam. The point is that she did everything to avoid the contest and entering to high school. A lot of problems, she did enter to a high school, but it's not the same, it's a high school for adult people. It's called an "Open School" where you have to study mostly by your own. Even though it seems really easy, my cousin couldn't handle it.
So she went to study Stylist and Beauty Culture and that's when the problem started because that career it's a little bit expensive. I'm not going much into details, but she made my parents really angry for situations that seemed not really important, but made them waste money.

After that, some day my parents didn't let her go to a party, she was crying so she could get the permission. And the bitch got it!!

That's when it happened, she had left with her boyfriend. She didn't return home. We got a call from her in the morning saying that she was not going to return home, she wanted to stay in her boyfriend's family's house.

Whatever I said. And my parents, my sister and me seemed really happy. Until My parents went to that damn house and talked to those two!

They realized she was pregnant and above all the shit she did to them. They're gonna help HER!

I told my mom: "Wait, we're not gonna mantain economically My cousin, her husband and the kid, are we?"

She answered: "Don't be rude because it's your brother-in-law and your nephew/niece"

I'm being rude?
They're the ones being rude and abusing.

Last night I refused to borrow them my mini-DVD because I wanted to watch a movie. My parents grounded me and called me rude and selfish. They really expect me to accept everything they try to impose me?

They're the ones who are abusing because my parents have borrowed them our other house and not satisfied with that they come to have breakfast, lunch and dinner every single day.


Isn't that abuse?


She's 16 and with new life inside her belly and she acts like a 3 year-old. Like this is all a game. Is that fair?

When my sister and me get good grades just to try to hang out like three times in a month?
And she does bad things and gets permissions immediately?

That's not fair...

Please I really need advice. I'm caught in a cage.

I know this very much! It's horrible and she's abusing your family's good will and kindness.
Hopefully they will realise soon.

Maybe this situation will make her more mature and realise she's abusing of your family's help :/
But I think your family will realise of that soon

I'm really hoping for that guys. Thank you

That's so unfair of her!!!
I really hope your family realize soon how she is exploiting you!

You've got to stand strong Mary, you're behaviour is to much better than hers! Soon she'll realize you and your family were taking so much care of her, and that she should've acted more mature.

I'm sorry to hear about that Mary.It is unfair indeed.I wish you, like all the others have said that your family will realize she's abusing you.

Thank you guys for your sweet comments. For caring. That means a lot. Because I can't really say this at my house or school.
I'm trying to do my own devoirs and being artistic so I can get distracted a little bit.
And also your words are helping a lot.